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YUM! Meals! We all have them, we all need them and we all enjoy them. Sometimes when life is busy, difficult, or in a season of change, somehow, a simple meal that we didn't have to think about or prepare can mean the world. That's where this post comes in - we want to help with this process by sharing tips or ideas for easy meal making and taking! I polled a few ladies on facebook and other social media, to see what they found helpful in making, taking and receiving meals. The response was GREAT! I am so thankful to all the wonderful women who responded! Here are your thoughts and tips!
Planning Ahead and Questions to Ask
1. Food allergies, likes and dislikes and menu ideas. Sometimes there are several days in a row that people are receiving meals, which is wonderful and a great blessing. It's nice to have a variety of food, so simply asking, "What did you have the past couple days?" prior to making the meal is helpful. Although a blessing, lasagna 3 days in a row can be "too much of a good thing". Also, we all want to bring food that people will enjoy. Just a couple questions like, "Do you like chicken? Will your children eat broccoli? can make a big difference and make the blessing even sweeter.
2. How many people will this meal serve? Sometimes there are other family that will be there for supper. Sometimes only 2 people. That's nice to know. If the family has children, ask if your children are "big eaters". Tailoring the amount of food to the number of people is wise thing. Many said it was stressful to throw out food that their family didn't eat just because of the sheer volume. So it's something to keep in mind.
3. Ask if they have a freezer - some women said although the food was wonderful, they could not use all the food that was brought and they did not have a freezer to preserve the leftovers for another day.
4. A few ladies mentioned that they make "double" of whatever they're making for their family and take that meal out for another family. Less to plan and prepare. Great idea!
5. If you are one organizing meals for a family/friend, ask about WHEN the meals would be helpful. Sometimes every night is too much depending on the family. In a grieving situation appetites can be interrupted because of a stressful time so it's nice to ask about these sorts of things. Also ask WHAT TIME would be good to drop off the meal. A few said the meal coming at the same time every night was a huge blessing because of work schedules, children home from school, hospital visitation schedule, etc.
Things to Avoid
1. For new mommies: cabbage, chocolate, too much garlic, onions and spice as sometimes these foods can cause gas in a nursing baby.
2. Sending dishes/containers that have to be returned. This was a reoccurring theme throughout most of the responses. This can be a burden to some, even causing guilt when one can't return the container in a timely manner. Foil trays with lids, take out containers or plastic Ziplock containers work so well. Don't cook in the foil or plastic, rather use them to transport meals. Putting one meal in one large foil tray works great too. For example putting the roast chicken, potatoes and veggie all in one large tray with a lid. Voila, the recipient opens the lid and the meal is all there.
Menu Ideas
These are a few ideas mentioned in the ladies responses so I decided to include them as I thought they were so good!
1. Sandwich buffet: to make lunch a bit easier, make up a tray of cold cuts, cheese, lettuce, pickles, tomatoes, etc and a big loaf of bread for a quick and easy lunch.
2. Potato Soup with homemade biscuits
3. Chicken dishes were popular served with potatoes/rice and a veggie
4. Beef stroganoff with noodles
5. Stir fry
6. Frozen meals for future use: lasagna, pizza, spaghetti sauce are a couple meals that can easily be frozen and used later on. Even if one can't bring an entire meal to someone, frozen food items were also a big hit with the ladies that responded.
7. Cut up veggies - great to send in the kids' lunches
8. Loaves of bread
9. Soup
10. Stew
11. Taco salad - to assemble yourself
12. Fresh fruit cup up
13. Muffins, cookies, banana bread, cupcakes
14. Desserts - brownies, angel food cake with strawberries and whipped cream, ice cream.
* Simple is best. Gourmet or extravagant dishes are not required to be heartfelt.
Extra Touches
1. Over half the women who responded mentioned that they really appreciated when a dozen muffins or some baking (buns, cookies, etc), box of granola bars, veggie tray, etc was included with the meal. These kinds of treats are really helpful for a midnight snack for a nursing Mom, a toddler's breakfast or something to serve quickly when guests are in the home.
2. Note of congratulations, sympathy or encouragement for the occasion to expressing love. congratulations or condolences to the family depending on the situation.
3. In the case of a new baby, a little present or special food item for the big brother(s) or
sister (s) to acknowledge them in the process. It's their new baby too! Some ideas include: a sweet treat like candy, popcorn, stickers, markers, playdoh, etc. Dollarama is perfect for this as it's not meant to be a big expense, only a little "something" to acknowledge the children.
4. Recipe cards or menu card with recipes of some or all of dishes.
Transportation Ideas
1. Hard plastic grocery bin lined with a towel for hot dishes
2. Laundry baskets
3. Using disposable foil pans for transport.
4. Using mason jars for a spill proof ride for things like soups and spaghetti sauce. Also some mentioned that mason jars were great for freezing sauces, etc.
5. Cooler for ice cream, frozen items.
6. Banana boxes (with handle holes) from Costco work great. They work wonderfully because they are heavy enough so if there's a spill or a hot dish, it won't leak or burn through.
Thanks again to all the beautiful women who responded to my questions and answered honestly and heartfelt. I so appreciate it and so do many others who will read this blog and be inspired to take a meal to someone who could use it. You're the best!
The whole point of this is to be a blessing, to be a GENEROUS HOME. Be simple, be generous and be quick to show the love of God through the avenue of a meal.
Happy cooking! We'd love to hear any more comments on this subject or any recipes that you've found to be especially useful and delicious!
Blessings,
Generous Home (Laura)


